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47 of the Most Iconic Wedding Venues in New York

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Blake Bakkila / 09 02 25
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Start spreading the news: New York is a state filled with exceptional wedding venues. There’s no shortage of dreamy destinations in New York, from the bustling boroughs of New York City to the luxurious beaches on Long Island to lush vineyards and farms in the Finger Lakes. 

As an epicenter for creativity and romance, it’s no wonder people “heart” NY for their wedding celebrations. With so many options to choose from, our favorite wedding venues in New York state can take you to ceremonies overlooking Manhattan, receptions at sprawling estates, and virtually anything in between.

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What are the benefits of wedding venues in New York?

New York truly has it all, which is what draws so many couples to the Big Apple and beyond. It’s relatively easy to travel to, thanks to the various modes of transportation, and there are all kinds of wedding venues in New York state. Here are the need-to-know details on why couples choose New York wedding venues:

Transportation

New York stands as the most visited city in the United States, and there are three major international airports in the area — John F. Kennedy International Airport (JFK) in Queens, LaGuardia Airport (LGA) in East Elmhurst, and Newark Liberty International Airport (EWR) in Newark, New Jersey. There’s also Long Island MacArthur Airport (ISP) for those traveling to Long Island, plus several regional and international airports in Upstate New York. Planes, trains, and automobiles are all available in New York, depending on how and where you want to visit. Couples planning a classic New York City wedding often feature the city’s transportation in their wedding portraits, posing in taxi cabs, underneath the train schedule at Grand Central Station, or underground with the subway zooming by in the background. 

Variety

There’s a common misconception about wedding venues in New York: Contrary to popular belief, you don’t necessarily need to be in an Empire State of mind (though it’s hard not to swoon over big city wedding venues). New York is the city that never sleeps, yes, but it’s also a place filled with sleepy beach towns, and more than 7,500 lakes, ponds, and reservoirs. You can get married in a skyscraper, on a farm, or even on the beach. There are few states that have as much range as New York. 

Iconic Locales

In 2024, the city celebrated nearly 65 million visitors venturing there, so it goes without saying that New York is the ultimate destination. There are the historic hotels like The Plaza and lavish landmarks such as the New York City Public Library, but these iconic destinations extend to the rest of the state. Case in point: Few can forget when The Office’s Jim and Pam tied the knot on a Niagara Falls boat tour. (Psst…you can also get married aboard the Maid of the Mist!). In the city, by the beach, or near the mountains, wedding venues in New York are simply unparalleled.

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Wedding Venues in New York City

Comprising five boroughs, New York City is home to the most popular wedding venues in New York. Five-star hotels off Fifth Avenue, restaurants in Central Park, downtown rooftops, skyline-centric Brooklyn properties, and verdant botanical gardens in the Bronx — the list goes on and on when we’re talking about New York City. There’s glamour, there’s history, and there’s the notion that you can party until the sun comes up.

Wedding Venues in New York City
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American Museum of Natural History

New York, New York

If you loved A Night at the Museum, you may have found yourself daydreaming about getting married at the American Museum of Natural History. One of the most unique wedding venues in New York, you can host the cocktail hour surrounding Barosaurus in the Theodore Roosevelt Rotunda, dine under the 94-foot blue whale in the Milstein Hall of Ocean Life. The massive venue can accommodate up to 3,500 people, so it’s best for a large-scale celebration. 

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Sophie Kaye
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Central Park Boathouse

New York, New York

The backdrop for near-countless movie scenes, the Central Park Boathouse (formerly known as The Loeb Boathouse Central Park) provides couples with a waterside setting in the middle of Manhattan. The newly renovated event space boasts an updated restaurant and charming elements you know and love about the historic property. It’s positioned right on a lake, and you can rent row boats for your guests or to snap a few photos as newlyweds. 

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Tavern on the Green

New York, New York

Tucked into the west side of Central Park, this wedding venue is an institution. With indoor, outdoor, and mixed spaces, there are several spots to host each part of your wedding. Weather depending, the garden terrace or courtyard area are where you can dine and dance under the stars. Work with the onsite event and culinary team to envision the ultimate event at one of the top restaurant wedding venues in New York. 

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Fred Marcus Studio
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The Plaza Hotel

New York, New York

The Plaza…need we say more? Located just south of Central Park, The Plaza opened in October 1907, and over the years, has been recognized as a premier wedding venue. Pop culture aficionados will remember it from the 2009 film Bride Wars, which showed best friends-turned-rivals Liv (Kate Hudson) and Emma (Anne Hathaway) planning weddings at The Plaza on the same day. According to the hotel’s website, “Nothing unimportant ever happens at The Plaza” — and you can add your own wedding to the list.

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The Pierre New York

New York, New York

The Plaza’s neighbor is worthy of praise as well, offering views of Central Park and 18,000 square feet of event space (including the Grand Ballroom, which can hold up to 750 people). Ceremonies and receptions can unfold at this ultra-chic hotel, which first opened its doors in 1930. Room blocks are also available for you and your guests, which isn’t always guaranteed at hotel wedding venues in New York City.

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620 Loft & Garden

New York, New York 

It’s hard to pass on the breathtaking backdrop at 620 Loft & Garden, a space for an elevated wedding — literally. Perched on the seventh floor, you’ll have a view of St. Patrick’s Cathedral, Rockefeller Center, and Fifth Avenue below. You can exchange vows at a nearby church, such as St. Patrick’s, or have everything planned at 620 Loft & Garden. One of the most original wedding venues in New York state, it features a rooftop garden, reflecting pool, and an interior space. 

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Rainbow Room

New York, New York

On the 65th floor of 30 Rock, Rainbow Room is a place to take in views of the city from a glamorous, art deco interior space. Complete with a dramatic chandelier overhead, it offers what many wedding venues in New York can’t: a full view of the Empire State Building (which will likely photo-bomb most of your wedding portraits). Because of New York’s sometimes unpredictable weather, this is one that won’t require a contingency plan.  

Wedding Venues in New York City
Fred Marcus Studio
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Lotte New York Palace

New York, New York

Yes, the Big Apple is also where you can get married in a palace. Feel like royalty at this five-star hotel in Midtown East, which is the definition of opulence inside and out. Each couple can select items for a custom menu, and you’ll nab a private spot in the Madison Avenue courtyard for photos with your partner, wedding party, and family.

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Grand Brasserie

New York, New York

French restaurant by day, private wedding venue by night. A full buyout of Grand Brasserie in Grand Central Terminal can seat up to 400 guests and give you a one-of-a-kind event at one of the most legendary wedding venues in New York. In the space previously occupied by City Winery, Vanderbilt Hall is a centrally located, charming area that opened in the summer of 2024. 

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The New York Public Library - Stephen A. Schwarzman Building

New York, New York

Libraries aren’t just for books — they make for stunning wedding venues in New York, too. Of the many high-profile couples who tied the knot here, Kevin Love and Kate Bock’s wedding is one we won’t forget anytime soon. One of the highlights of the timelessly chic event was a children’s choir singing “I Choose You” by Willie Hutch as Bock walked down the aisle. “Their voices were unbelievable and just sounded so beautiful in that marble room in the library,” Bock previously shared with us. “It was really special and captivating and everything we wanted it to be.”

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Gotham Hall

New York, New York

The former location of Greenwich Savings Bank, Gotham Hall first opened as an event space in 2002. The special events team, executive chef, and 9,000-square-foot ballroom with a 70-foot-high ceiling are the main draws for this grandiose venue. The team will only host one event at a time, so you can plan a celebration that’s all your own and completely focuses on you and your partner.

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The Lighthouse at Chelsea Piers

New York, New York

The Pier Sixty Collection is a trio of wedding venues in New York, but we’re partial to The Lighthouse. With floor-to-ceiling glass windows showcasing the Hudson River and Hoboken waterfront, it’s a big gathering space for large-scale weddings. On warmer days, you and your guests can venture out to the veranda at cocktail hour or to get some fresh air and take in the river views throughout the night.

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The Bowery Hotel

New York, New York

The Lower East Side (LES) is a more laidback approach to wedding venues in New York — and there’s nothing more chic than a wedding at The Bowery Hotel. The celebrity-favorite hotel is a moody, romantic setting for both ceremonies and receptions. Exposed brick walls, wooden beams, and Moroccan tiled floors give it a warmth and elegance unlike any other you’ll find in Manhattan.

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Tribeca Rooftop

New York, New York

Take your love to new heights at the Tribeca Rooftop. With your booking, you’ll get access to 29,000 square feet of space, including a terrace and interior area. The panoramic views of the city and water and in-house event manager and catering team make it a spot for seamless planning. Sample menus are available, but each one is customized for couples.

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New York City Hall

New York, New York

One of the most affordable and iconic wedding venues in New York? None other than city hall. It’s technically easier to book on shorter notice, but you’ll still need to reserve an in-person appointment for a marriage ceremony. Splurge on a photographer to take with you and then meet up with family and friends for a celebratory downtown dinner or brunch afterward. 

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Manhatta

New York, New York

Not to be outdone, Manhatta is a New American restaurant 60 floors up in the Financial District. Prioritizing contemporary cuisine and can’t-miss views of the city, it’ll fulfill any vision for a modern wedding in Manhattan. Private dining rooms are great for intimate affairs, or opt for a full buyout to take advantage of the 22,000+ square feet of interior space.

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Wythe Hotel

Brooklyn, New York

SNL alum Aidy Bryant is one of many people who have said “I do” at this luxury hotel and all-inclusive wedding venue. There are several locations for your special event, and the garden terrace with the signature black and white tiled flooring and exposed brick is a timeless location for your ceremony. Afterward, head over to the Main Hall for dinner and dancing.

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Rule of Thirds

Brooklyn, New York

Everyone’s favorite Japanese restaurant in Brooklyn doubles as a modern-minimalist event space. The fluted wooden wall is a backdrop for the ceremony, and the room later transforms into a dance floor. Everything is served family-style, bringing everyone together with a relaxed atmosphere and standout culinary experience. Plus, we dare you to only have *one* serving of the white sesame soft serve they prepare for dessert.

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The Foundry

Long Island City, New York

This restored 19th century building is an industrial paradise just across the East River from Manhattan. There’s a lot of space to work with, from a rooftop terrace with views of the city (ideal for first looks and wedding portraits!) to an indoor greenhouse. Covered in ivy, it’s a dreamy hidden gem and the freedom to fill each room with your own special vendors and design. It should be noted this is one of the wedding venues in New York that require you to bring all of your vendors on board, making it a good fit for creative couples with a clear vision of their wedding day. A wedding planner can help you achieve almost anything here, plus you can review previous weddings on Carats & Cake to learn about the best vendors who have worked there in the past.

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New York Botanical Garden

Bronx, New York

We don’t often associate New York City with lush gardens, but there are several botanical gardens within the boroughs. Most notably, this 250-acre property in the Bronx has been around since the late 1800s. Blending history with contemporary design, the National Historic Landmark also boasts two event spaces for all sorts of gatherings. Partnered with Constellation Culinary Group, it’s one of the many wedding venues in New York with top-of-the-line cuisine to boot.

Wedding Venues on Long Island

A catchall for so many destinations, Long Island stretches out across southeastern New York and is surrounded by water. There’s the Long Island Sound to the north and the Atlantic Ocean just south of the island, along with a series of bays between the North Fork and The Hamptons. Here, you can explore wedding venues in New York such as estates with pristine gardens, vineyards touting award-winning wine, and breezy beachside clubs. 

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Oheka Castle

Huntington, New York

Fulfill your very own fairytale at this castle on the northern shore of Long Island. The perfectly manicured gardens and French chateau-style architecture have made it a film location for TV shows like Succession and even Taylor Swift’s “Blank Space” music video. Most recently, TikTok creator and podcast host Jaz Smith got married here and famously shared a slew of videos in real-time throughout her special weekend. Though considered the second-largest private residence in the U.S., it now conveniently operates as a hotel for you and your guests.

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Fox Hollow

Woodbury, New York

Another one of the most popular wedding venues in New York on Long Island’s North Shore, Fox Hollow is an 8-acre property marked with gorgeous gardens and waterfalls. Come winter, the magical grounds transform with the Winter Garden Pavilion, accentuated by chandeliers with skylights to show the stars above this serene setting. As a bonus, couples will receive a complimentary night at the hotel. 

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Peconic Bay Yacht Club

Southold, New York

Nestled between the North Fork and Shelter Island, Peconic Bay has the best of both worlds: waterfront views in renowned wine country. The Peconic Bay Yacht Club is a blissful, nautical hideaway with a lawn overlooking the water. Part of the CulinArt Catering Collection, food is a top priority, making it a well-rounded spot to say “I do.” 

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Kontokosta Winery

Greenport, New York

Two words: Waterfront winery. Choose between indoor celebrations year-round or a tented event for up to 300 guests anytime between May and October. Their hand-harvested and handcrafted wine is also a plus, which you can serve to guests all day and night.

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Love & Theory
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Oceanblèu

Westhampton Beach, New York

Whether you spent summers going out to the Hamptons or merely got a glimpse of them in Sex and the City or Bravo’s Summer House, you can understand the appeal of a wedding out east. In Westhampton, CulinArt’s Oceanbléu property is a ballroom with massive windows revealing the Atlantic Ocean right outside. For your convenience, there’s also a full-service event planning team available, and they offer recommended vendors to further streamline the process. 

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Parrish Art Museum

Water Mill, New York

Creatives are welcome at this historic, architecturally distinct museum. Designed by Herzog & de Meuron, Parrish combines a bucolic landscape with thought-provoking art exhibits. Indoor or out, weddings hosted here are memorable, authentic, and modern.

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Bridgehampton Tennis & Surf Club

Bridgehampton, New York

A members-only club in the Hamptons, this seaside escape gives couples the opportunity to exchange vows right on the beach. You might not have time for tennis or surfing on the big day, but the site does have 14 Har-Tru tennis courts and private cabanas (among other amenities). 

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Topping Rose House

Bridgehampton, New York

There’s a rustic-meets-modern feel to this property in Bridgehampton, a 19th century mansion that’s undergone a major update. You can stay at one of the cottages, indulge at the Jean-Georges restaurant, and get some pre- or post-wedding R&R at the spa. 

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Judy Pak
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Wölffer Estate Vineyard

Sagaponack, New York

If you’ve ever been on a Hamptons wine tour, you’ve likely stopped by Wölffer. Perhaps best known for their Summer in a Bottle rosé, the 55-acres of vineyards are the highlight. Wedding and event packages are offered for rehearsal dinners, weddings, and other types of gatherings. There are vines as far as the eye can see throughout the massive property, providing unparalleled photos at a greenery-filled event space.

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LongHouse Reserve

Northwest Harbor, New York

Dreaming of getting married in a sculpture garden. Look no further than LongHouse Reserve, a non-profit museum and enchanting landscape sprinkled with sculptural artwork. Two oversized hedges are a defining feature for the ceremony or photos with your partner and wedding party. Fair warning: LongHouse is one of the wedding venues in New York state that only hosts a few weddings per year, so you’ll want to schedule it as soon as possible. 

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Gurney’s Montauk

Montauk, New York

Gurney’s is a destination known as a celebrity hub and beachfront wedding destination. In fact, the luxury resort’s Beach Club is the only “on-the-beach, beside-the-ocean dining experience” you’ll find in the Hamptons. Several other indoor or outdoor spaces are also open for weddings, like the tented Top Deck, which is situated above the Atlantic Ocean.

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Bo Shim
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360 East at Montauk Downs

Montauk, New York

Maybe you’re an avid golfer, or perhaps you’re a new fan of the sport thanks to Owen Wilson’s Apple TV hit Stick. Whatever your reasons for seeking out golf course wedding venues in New York, a superbly stunning selection is 360 East at Montauk Downs. With views of the ocean and 18-hole golf course, breathtaking photos are guaranteed. Cliffside spots and the lighthouse in the distance make it a coastal dreamscape.

Wedding Venues in Upstate New York

While New York state consists of 10 distinct regions, “Upstate” refers to the areas north of New York City. Hudson Valley, the Finger Lakes, the Catskills, Syracuse, Rochester, and Buffalo are only a few of the most recognizable spots with the best wedding venues in New York state. A quick train ride or hours-long trip north and northwest of the city, wedding venues in New York’s upstate region are more relaxed, natural settings for couples who love the great outdoors. Mansions, farms, and more are all located in this section of the state, but keep in mind that many have limited availability in the summer and fall months only.

Wedding Venues in Upstate New York
Heather Waraska
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Troutbeck

Amenia, New York

Giving nods to the past with contemporary updates, Troutbeck is an estate hotel designed for romantics. The bucolic setting has a walled garden, ballroom, and two barns to choose from for your special day. Staying true to its roots in the Hudson Valley, most of the food you eat there is locally sourced. The property can host more than 80 guests, perfect for an intimate getaway or lodging option for a portion of people attending your celebration. 

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Wildflower Farms

Gardiner, New York

A modern farmhouse-style barn and event lawns are only a few of the many wedding venues located at this Auberge resort. The laidback luxury of this award-winning spot makes it the ultimate destination for small and big gatherings alike. If you’re interested and your budget allows, a full buyout gives you and your guests the freedom to roam and room there without any interruptions. For the best wedding prep, consider booking a massage or facial at the spa.

Wedding Venues in Upstate New York
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City Winery Hudson Valley

Montgomery, New York

Wine enthusiasts don’t have to go far to explore the expansive lawns, exposed brick, and wooden beams that make this one of the most versatile wedding venues in New York state. Lean into a classic, rustic, or industrial wedding with your specific ceremony and reception area, and work with the venue’s event team to explore customized floorplans. Reservations for partial or full buyouts fill up quickly, so you’ll want to plan well in advance for weddings hosted here. 

Wedding Venues in Upstate New York
READYLUCK
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Cedar Lakes Estate

Port Jervis, New York

Glamping reaches its peak at Cedar Lakes, a retreat owned and operated by sisters Stephanie and Lisa. With nostalgic elements like sports fields and a zipline, there are heartfelt additions that will take you right back to childhood. Married with the mountainous landscape and verdant surroundings, it’s one of the most one-of-a-kind wedding venues in New York. The amphitheater has a restored 90-year-old lakeside deck, which is the ideal backdrop for a ceremony at sunset. And when you’re ready for the after-party, there’s no better spot than the Treehouse. All guests can stay on location for a multi-day experience with you, your partner, and all of your favorite people. For extra reassurance, Beanie Feldstein and Bonnie-Chance Roberts hosted a summer camp-themed wedding there in 2023.

Wedding Venues in Upstate New York
Heather Waraska
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Glenmere Mansion

Chester, New York

For a hilltop hideaway in Hudson Valley, this mansion was once home to the Goelet family. Since then, it’s adapted to become a hotel with 15 rooms, two restaurants, and a spa. Country wedding venues in New York are possible at a place like Glenmere, which even has a barn with views of the mountains in the distance. 

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The Briarcliff Manor

Briarcliff Manor, New York

Another one of the most popular estate wedding venues in New York, Westchester’s Briarcliff is a full-service property dating back to the 1800s. With thoughtful renovations over the years, there are indoor and outdoor locations for ceremonies and weddings, and a tiered set of event packages for your special day. Suited for intimate or large celebrations, it’s a fabulous property for events of all scales.

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Blue Hill at Stone Barns

Tarrytown, New York

Chef Dan Barber’s fine dining in a pastoral setting is one of the many reasons why couples find themselves daydreaming about this farm. Fit for intimate celebrations and large-scale events, you can seat anywhere between 12 and 260 guests for an incomparable culinary experience. Each menu is carefully created depending on what’s in season and fresh on the farm, and the HayLoft is the perfect place to dance the night away. If you haven’t already, queue up the second episode of Netflix’s Chef’s Table to learn more about Barber’s innovative cuisine at this establishment in the Hudson Valley. 

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Whitby Castle

Rye, New York

When it comes to palatial wedding venues in New York, Whitby Castle has everything planned out. Not to be confused with Whitby Abbey in England, it’s a European-inspired property just north of New York City. Expect to see views of the Long Island Sound, exchange vows on the lawn just outside of the castle, and have your first dance and reception in the opulent ballroom.

Wedding Venues in Upstate New York
Melani Lust Photography
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Wainwright House

Rye, New York

A replica of a French chateau, Wainwright House is a waterfront property with dining rooms, a library, and solarium. Couples tend to recommend a tented canopy in the garden, but you can consult with the event team for more details on what you can achieve there. 

Wedding Venues in Upstate New York
Chrysa Leigh Photography
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M&D Farm

Westerlo, New York

The Catskills Mountains, often shortened to the Catskills, are located in the southeastern region of the state. M&D Farm is where the Hudson Valley meets the mountains, and the European-influenced gardens, wooded area, and ponds will transport you to another part of the world. The event season only lasts from late May to early October and the property accepts weddings with up to 150 guests. 

Wedding Venues in Upstate New York
Joshua Brown Photography
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Meadow Ridge on Hudson

Coxsackie, New York

A 19th century farmstead with plenty of contemporary renovations, Meadow Ridge is a venue with a climate-controlled barn, garden area for rehearsal dinners, and more. Because they don’t offer on-site catering, you’ll need to work with one of their recommended third-party vendors.

Wedding Venues in Upstate New York
Mary Dougherty Photography
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Hayfield Catskills

Maplecrest, New York

Two 200-year-old barns tucked into Catskill State Park define one of the most beautiful and bucolic wedding venues in New York. Outdoorsy couples are drawn to this spot, which is close to hiking trails with waterfalls and lakes to visit before or after the wedding. About a dozen weddings and other events are hosted here per year, giving you a more exclusive, curated experience. 

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Hannah Marich
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Kenoza Hall

Kenoza Lake, New York

The gabled Victorian mansion in the western Catskills is what rustic wedding dreams are made of. The 22 guest rooms and 10 bungalows can accommodate you, your partner, and several guests, and there’s also a restaurant, bar, and spa. Ceremonies are typically set up near the lake or on a patio surrounding my lush landscaping, and a tent can function as your reception space. 

Wedding Venues in Upstate New York
Lindsay Madden Photography
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The Sagamore Resort

Landing, New York

The Sagamore Resort is a historic locale on Green Island on Lake George in the Adirondacks. The water and mountains are the backdrop for a lakeside ceremony, and you and your guests can book rooms to stay on the property. Sample wedding weekends suggest pool days and golf outings before and after the celebration.

Wedding Venues in Upstate New York
Juliana Cole Photography
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The Inns of Aurora

Aurora, New York

Cayuga Lake is the longest of the 11 Finger Lakes in Upstate New York, another area known for wineries. Escape the hustle and bustle of other wedding venues in New York, and retreat to this collection of historic homes in wine country for celebrations surrounded by nature. But you don’t have to take our word for it; here’s what the Michelin Guide said about the keyholder: “Comforts throughout are high-end, but not flashy — as plush as it is, there’s nothing gaudy or opulent about these inns.”

What should you know about the wedding venues in New York?

Rest assured, wedding venues in New York certainly have more pros than cons, but there are a few potential drawbacks to consider. People love the state for its changing seasons and luxurious destinations, but those benefits can contribute to concerns about hosting a wedding there. Below, see the three notes we’d be remiss not to mention about the best wedding venues in New York. 

Unpredictable weather: You can do your best to plan for an outdoor wedding, but wedding venues in New York can experience severe humidity, rainstorms, and snowstorms. You’ll want to consult with your wedding planner and the event team to talk about alternative options. Most of the time, however, wedding venues in New York will have contingency plans. For example, Blue Hill at Stone Barns has a covered awning or the HayLoft for last-minute changes due to inclement weather. All of this said, some alternative plans may come with added costs, like having a tent on-hand in case there’s bad weather. And if you do find yourself with a less-than-favorable weather prediction, just remind yourself that rain on your wedding day is good luck!

Cost: There’s no way around it: Wedding venues in New York are generally more expensive than the average wedding elsewhere in the country. The national average of an American wedding was $36,000 in 2025, but the average New York wedding was a staggering $53,873 — a significant jump from $45,422 in 2024. Washington, D.C. topped the list at $70,625, followed by New Jersey ($57,706) and Vermont ($55,703). The wedding venue accounts for roughly 40 percent of the total cost of the wedding, with averages ranging from $6,500 to $12,000. With all of this in mind, you can expect wedding venues in New York to cost much more than a typical American wedding venue. Hiring a planner can give you a better idea of overall costs, and you can discuss which vendors you’re more willing to spend more on for your celebration.

Timing: Seasonality is something that should factor into your plans. For starters, some of the best wedding venues in New York state are only bookable for a short period (generally May to October). Because New York is such an international hub, there are certain events that can make it more difficult to navigate to your wedding venue. A couple of thought-starters: On the first Monday in May, Fifth Avenue is buzzing with celebrities and photogs at the Met Gala, and TSC New York City Marathon closes off streets all over New York City in early November.  

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Wedding Venues in New York
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What is the average cost of wedding venues in New York?

It’s no secret that New York wedding venues are some of the most in-demand and prestigious in the world. That also means costs vary dramatically depending on the type of venue, location, and what’s included with your reservation. A rooftop in Brooklyn, a ballroom in Midtown Manhattan, and a vineyard in the Hudson Valley will all come with varying prices and offerings. Instead of focusing on a single “average,” couples should look at what’s bundled into the venue fee — things like catering, rentals, and staff — and compare those details. Asking for a clear breakdown of what’s included will give you the most accurate picture of what a particular New York venue might cost.

What are the most popular types of wedding venues in New York?

From chic rooftops to rustic barns, New York has it all. City couples often choose lofts, industrial spaces, hotels, or historic landmarks that bring an urban edge. Outside of the city, couples love vineyards, country estates, and waterfront venues that offer more space and natural backdrops. The most popular venues are the ones that align with the couple’s overall wedding vision — modern and metropolitan in the city, or relaxed and scenic Upstate or on Long Island.

When is the best time of year to book a New York wedding venue?

Peak wedding season in New York is typically late spring through early fall, especially May, June, September, and October. These months offer comfortable weather and beautiful scenery, which also makes them highly competitive. If you’re set on a popular date, it’s best to start reaching out to venues 12 to 18 months in advance. That said, winter weddings in New York can be stunning and often allow couples to take advantage of unique spaces with fewer scheduling conflicts. You can even ask about other off-peak times, such as weekdays, which could come with a lower rate and more availability. 

How do I choose between a New York City venue and an Upstate or Long Island venue?

Think about three things: guest logistics, overall vibe, and weekend experience. If most of your guests are local and you want something sleek and convenient, a New York City venue makes sense because of its proximity to major airports and the endless number of accommodations in the area. If you’re hoping to turn your wedding into a mini-getaway, a Long Island or Upstate venue can give your guests a full weekend to explore, relax, and celebrate with you. Neither option is “better” — it just depends on the story you want your wedding to tell.

Are there unique wedding venues in New York that stand out?

Definitely. A few couples’ favorites include the New York Public Library for its historic grandeur, The Foundry in Long Island City with its industrial-meets-greenhouse charm, and farms and vineyards in the Hudson Valley for panoramic outdoor views. Unique venues like these go beyond just providing a space — they set the tone for your entire celebration and give your guests a one-of-a-kind experience.

How can you pick from so many wedding venues in New York?

With so many wedding venues in New York to choose from, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. We always recommend that couples reach out to a wedding planner prior to making big decisions, like the venue, and to consult with them about what they really want for their wedding day. Wedding venues in New York City could be on your vision board, but they might also be out of your price range. Having a clear understanding of your budget will help you through this part of the process, and it’ll allow you to narrow it down to the best geographic region. 

This day is all about you, but you should factor in your guests and where they’re traveling from as well. If you need lodging for most of them, you’ll benefit from selecting one of the wedding venues in New York like a hotel or in an area with nearby accommodations. More isolated wedding venues in New York could require additional transportation efforts, so you’ll need to consult with your venue to talk through your options for parking and taking your guests to and from the wedding.

So, where to for “I do?” As Frank Sinatra once mused, “It’s up to you, New York, New York.” 

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